A story where you are not defined by what was done to you, but by how you rose after it like the fucking phoenix you are!

Have you ever walked away from a conversation with someone and thought, “Why do I feel so small, so confused, so wrong, when I didn’t feel that way before?” That sinking feeling is often the mark of a narcissist.

✨ For years, I was the fixer. The one holding everything together. Always in control. Always protecting myself.

Now? I light candles just for me. I get cosy in my pyjamas and read a book. I nurture myself in the ways I used to want to nurture others. I’ve embraced my soft girl era, and I’ve never felt more free. 🌸

Want to read my full journey — from always fixing others to finally blooming on my own

I remember going through a breakup, frantically calling my friend, saying, ‘Can you come round my house? Don’t leave me, don’t stop talking, don’t go.’ When she had to go home at the end of the night, I begged, ‘No, stay, stay,’ because I knew once she left, the loneliness would hit hard.

That’s why Room2Bloom exists—to be that hand to hold when the night feels too heavy, to listen when no one else can, and to remind you that you are not alone.”

I don’t regret waiting to read it. I wasn’t ready back then. If I’d picked it up earlier, maybe it would have bounced right off me and nothing would’ve changed. But reading it at the exact moment I did? That was powerful. Life changing.

Why I created the heartbreak Healer. I choose to share this for anyone who may need reassurance there is light at the end of the tunnel. 🙌

Because heartbreak doesn’t have to define you. It can be the moment where you reclaim yourself, shine brighter than ever, and step into a life that feels like yours again. And I’ll be there cheering for you the whole way.

Breaking away from a narcissist is not easy, but it is possible. Healing doesn’t happen overnight, but every step forward is a step back to yourself. You are not too broken, too weak, or too late to start again. You deserve relationships rooted in respect, empathy, and love.

Breaking a trauma bond isn’t instant, and it isn’t easy. There may be moments of longing, grief, or self-doubt. But each step toward freedom is also a step back to yourself. You are not weak for struggling you are strong for even wanting to heal.